standby-me

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2010-02-20T06:03:00.000-08:00

88 Truths

1. You can’t change other people, and it’s rude to try.
2. It is 100 times more difficult to burn calories than to refrain from consuming them in the first place.
3. If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well, you may be talking to someone who knows way more about whatever you’re talking about than you do.
4. The cheapest and most expensive models are usually both bad deals.
5. Everyone likes somebody who gets to the point quickly.
6. Bad moods will come and go your whole life, and trying to force them away makes them run deeper and last longer.
7. Children are remarkably honest creatures until we teach them not to be.
8. If everyone in the show you’re watching is good-looking, it’s not worth watching.
9. Yelling always makes things worse.
10. Whenever you’re worried about what others will think of you, you’re really just worried about what you’ll think of you.
11. Every problem you have is your responsibility, regardless of who caused it.
12. You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time.
13. If you never doubt your beliefs, then you’re wrong a lot.
14. Managing one’s wants is the most powerful skill a person can learn.
15. Nobody has it all figured out.
16. Cynicism is far too easy to be useful.
17. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.
18. Whenever you hate something, it hates you back: people, situations and inanimate objects alike.
19. Ralph Waldo Emerson’s works alone can teach you everything you need to know about living with grace and happiness.
20. People embellish everything, as a rule.
21. Anger reveals weakness of character, violence even more so.
22. Humans cannot destroy the planet, but we can destroy its capacity to keep us alive. And we are.
23. When people are uncomfortable with the present moment, they fidget with their hands or their minds. Watch and see.
24. Those who complain the most, accomplish the least.
25. Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier.
26. Credit card debt devours souls.
27. Nobody knows more than a minuscule fraction of what’s going on in the world. It’s just way too big for any one person to know it well.
28. Most of what we see is only what we think about what we see.
29. A person who is unafraid to present an unedited version of herself to the world is as rare as diamonds.
30. The most common addiction in the world is the draw of comfort. It wrecks dreams and breaks people.
31. If what you’re doing feels perfectly safe, there is probably a better course of action.
32. The greatest innovation in the history of humankind is language.
33. Blame is the favorite pastime of those who dislike responsibility.
34. Everyone you meet is better than you at something.
35. Proof is nothing but a collection of opinions that match one’s own.
36. Knowledge is belief, nothing more.
37. Indulging your desires is not self-love.
38. What makes human beings different from animals is that animals can be themselves with ease.
39. Self-examination is the only path out of misery.
40. Whoever you are, you will die. To know and understand that means you are alive.
41. Revenge is for the petty and irresponsible.
42. Getting truly organized can vastly improve anyone’s life.
43. Almost every cliché contains a truth so profound that people have been compelled to repeat it until it makes you roll your eyes. But the wisdom is still in there.
44. People cause suffering when they are suffering themselves. Alleviating their suffering will probably remove their inclination to create it for others.
45. High quality is worth any quantity, in possessions, friends and experiences.
46. The world would be a better place if everyone read National Geographic.
47. If you aren’t happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.
48. Even if it costs no money, nothing is free if it takes time.
49. Emotions exist to make us heavily biased towards or against something. This hinders as often as it helps.
50. Addiction is a much greater problem in society than it’s made out to be. It’s present in every person in various forms, but usually we call it something else.
51. “Gut feeling” is not just a euphemism. Tension in the abdomen speaks volumes about how you truly feel about something, beyond all arguments and rationales.
52. Posture and dress change profoundly how you feel about yourself and how others feel about you, like it or not.
53. Everyone thinks they’re an above average driver.
54. The urge to punish others has much more to do with venting frustration than correcting behavior.
55. By default, people think far too much.
56. If anything is worth splurging on, it’s a high-quality mattress. You’ll spend a third of your life using it.
57. There is nothing worse than having no friends.
58. To write a person off as worthless is an act of great violence.
59. Try as we might to be otherwise, we are all hypocrites.
60. Justice is a human invention which is in reality rarely achievable, but many will not hesitate to destroy lives demanding it.
61. Kids will usually understand exactly what you mean if you keep it to one or two short sentences.
62. Stuff that’s on sale usually has an annoying downside.
63. Casual swearing makes people sound dumb.
64. Words are immensely powerful. One cruel remark can wound someone for life.
65. It’s easy to make someone’s day just by being uncommonly pleasant to them.
66. Most of what children learn from their parents isn’t taught on purpose.
67. The secret ingredient is usually butter, in obscene amounts.
68. It is worth re-trying foods that you didn’t like at first.
69. Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful as the act of fearing them.
70. Nothing — ever — happens exactly like you pictured it.
71. North Americans are generally terrible at accepting compliments and offers of help.
72. There are not enough women in positions of power. The world has suffered from this deficit for a long time.
73. When you break promises to yourself, you feel terrible. When you make a habit of it, you begin to hate yourself.
74. A good nine out of ten bad things I worry about never happen. A good nine out of ten bad things that did happen never occurred to me to worry about.
75. You can’t hide a bad mood from people who know you well, but you can always be polite.
76. Sometimes you have to remove certain people from your life, even if they’re family.
77. Anyone can be calmed in an instant by looking at the ocean or the stars.
78. There is no point finishing a book you aren’t enjoying. Life is too short for that. Swallow your pride and put it down for good, unfinished.
79. There is no correlation between the price of a brand of batteries and how long they last.
80. Breaking new ground only takes a tiny amount more effort than you’re used to giving.
81. Life is a solo trip, but you’ll have lots of visitors. Some of them are long-term, most aren’t.
82. One of the best things you can do for your kids is take them on road trips. I’m not a parent, but I was a kid once.
83. The fewer possessions you have, the more they do for you.
84. Einstein was wiser than he was intelligent, and he was a genius.
85. When you’re sick of your own life, that’s a good time to pick up a book.
86. Wishing things were different is a great way to torture yourself.
87. The ability to be happy is nothing other than the ability to come to terms with how things change.
88. Killing time is an atrocity. It’s priceless, and it never grows back.

taken from http://delicatelybruised.tumblr.com.

bye to blogger , now.

2010-01-15T19:29:00.001-08:00

heh. im gonna let this thing rot till , maybe until mid-years(:

new year,new hair,new resolution!

2010-01-01T18:58:00.000-08:00

Happy New Yearrrrrrrrrrr,2010 ! :D

Fts were taken by Meg.C !

see this two cuties.

Vivo,Sentosa&Esplanade!
Hugeeeeeeee crowds arld at Esplanade when we reached
hehhe.okay.
My new year resolution is , um,
Get As for Exam.blahblahblah
haha post ltr on luh , im lazy right now ":D

im bored,kill me.

2009-12-27T21:40:00.000-08:00

take this from fb somewhere.

WHAT WAS YOUR:
1. Last beverage: Water?
2. Last phone call: Megan Chai
3. Last text message: Megannnn~
4. Last song you listened to: All the Right Moves-One Republic
5. Last time you cried: Was sick ,and the tears just comes out on its own.

HAVE YOU EVER:
6. Dated someone twice: No.
7. Been cheated on: hmm
8. Kissed someone & regretted it: No
9. Lost someone special: -
10. Been depressed: of cause -.-
11. Been drunk and threw up: haha no absolutely.

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLOURS:
12. Black
13.gray
14. white

THIS YEAR HAVE YOU: (2009)
15. Made a new friend: yeah i guess.
16. Fallen out of love: If its even called love in the first place.. =.=
17. Laughed until you cried: TOTALLY!!HAAH :D
18. Met someone who changed you: Hmm...
19. Found out who your true friends were: Yeah...
20. Found out someone was talking about you: :/
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: hahah they would freak out ! :D
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: -
23. How many kids do you want? 2?
24. Do you have any pets: Nope D:
25. Do you want to change your name: Nope.
26. What did you do for your last birthday: Hmm,it was going to Clark Quay or smth?
27. What time did you wake up today: 10am?
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Trying to Sleep...
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: FOOD!!!!
30. Last time you saw your Mother:6 days ago?
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life:Stop letting people ordering you around.
32. What are you listening to right now :Elva - Goodbye bye bye?
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: No

34. What's getting on your nerves right now: blocknose. Cnt smell anything at all !!!
35. Most visited webpage: Google.
36. Whats your real name: Meidian u mean?
37. Nicknames:Med :D
38. Relationship Status:attach to my computer. hahhaa
39. Zodiac sign:Gemini.
41. Primary School?:DQPS
42. Secondary School?: Whitley Sec
43. High school/college?: -
44. Hair colour: Black? Slightly brownish..
45. Long or short: Something in the middle.
46. Height:1** , my frens would surely know , so no need to say that here :D
47. Do you have a crush on someone?:Not at the moment...
48: What do you like about yourself?: :/
49. Piercings: Ears.. 4?
50. Tattoos:um no , it hurts.
51. Righty or lefty: Righty!!! XD

FIRSTS :
52. First surgery:yeah.
53. First piercing: When i was a baby.
54. First best friend:Shu Fang ? :D
55. First sport you joined:Badmintion?
56. First vacation:Taiwan?
58. First pair of trainers:um i dont know.

RIGHT NOW
59. Eating:nothing.
60. Drinking: nothing.
61. I'm about to:meet meg ltr.
62. Listening to: nothing.
63. Waiting on: huh?

YOUR FUTURE
64. Want kids?: -.-
65. Get Married?: let see how things goes...
66. Career?: MONEY!!

WHICH IS BETTER :
67. Lips or eyes: Eyes
68. Hugs or kisses: Hugs.
69. Shorter or taller: TALLER.
70. Older or Younger: Older.
71. Romantic or spontaneous: Both. >.<
72. Nice stomach or nice arms: arm?
73. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive.
74. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship. Duh?
75. Trouble maker or hesitant: Trouble maker. Its more fun that way?

HAVE YOU EVER :
76. Kissed a stranger: Nope.
77. Drank hard liquor: No..
78. Lost glasses/contacts: Dont even wore it b4.
79. Sex on first date:hah.no .
80. Broken someone's heart: hmmm idk .
82. Been arrested: hahah no .
83. Turned someone down: yea?
84. Cried when someone died: Does Anime/Drama/Movie characters count?.
85. Fallen for a friend?:hmm no

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
86. Yourself: I try to?
87. Miracles: yes?
88. Love at first sight: :/
89. Heaven: Yes
90. Santa Claus: Nope.
91. Kiss on the first date: Nope.
92. Angels: Yes.

ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
94. Had more than 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at a time: Nope.
95. Did you sing today?: hahahah yes?
96. Ever cheated on somebody?: No
97. If you could go back in time, how far would you go?: Back to the ancient times of Japan, Korea, Europe, Greece etc.
98. If you could pick a day from last year and relive it, what would it be?: none of it.
99. Are you afraid of falling in love?: If it happens it happens..
100. Posting this as 100 truths?: i guesss so...

go awayyyyyyyyyyy

2009-12-24T01:18:00.001-08:00

my idiotic brother ! hahah
see how huge is the banana? lol

A typical scene in indo.

Pisang Gepit. mean squashed banana?? im not sure . :D

Hehhehehehhe,
im back, feeling a lil bit unwell tho.
8 hours ferry ride from my hometown to batam
then from batam to Sg took 1 hour.
I was feeling rather drained already.
Went to relative house first, and blahblahbalh.
Long storyy.Hmmm. Meg actually called me-.-
wanted to say to her havent come back in MSN,
nvr thought she called -.- hehehehhe ,
reached home ,bathed and go sleep alrd.
Damn exhausted.But rather unfortunately,
i caught a cold . Running nose again ):
Tmr going out with the girls ! yayy

so b4 that,i wish everyone have a
Merry Christmas ! :D

Blackout.

2009-12-21T20:54:00.000-08:00

ehem,so basically going back sg was delayed till tmr . hahhaha .
my mum didnt even tell me until i wake up early in the morning
then say tmr then go back cause my aunt wanted to take on a bigger ship.
then i was like -.- , why not tell earlier ley,then no need wake up so early
in the morning , go back sleep ah . lol.Well, better this way heh, dont want go back
so early yet.

Going back means preparing for school,books ect ect...
Talking bt going back school.i kinda have mixed feelings bout it.
i mean,i feel excited yet uh...bored? lol . i just want to see my friends luh!
hhahahha sheeeeeeesh.Can meet up with the girls soon ! heheh
hahha kkkk,off to my dramas !:D

santa claws.

2009-12-14T23:18:00.000-08:00

And i have just heard that i'll be going on 22Dec.

So i think i would be able to celebrate Chirstmas with

em , how awesome is that :D hehehhe .

but i kind of feel a bit she bu de. Even though i really

really,had nothing to do here -.- And guess what,

i just did smoothing to my hair, something like bonding.

And the price was , ughh, i not saying money,the process.

makes me wonder what makes me want to do my hair in the

first place, its so painful ! vainity always has a price to pay for.

hehe , not that im not not satisfied, but the hairdresser,which

is my relative, cut my hair !!! ugh. im not saying it really very short,

in fact,its return to the same length i always had T.T. ugh

i cant say im not sad, sighhhhh, i was thinking i wil leave it real long,

then i wll snap it short . But i guess i will wait till i graduate. :D

hmm.thats all i guess. Lazy upload fts so bye ! :D

help less.

2009-12-11T21:59:00.000-08:00

O.O

woahh.

Found these interesting fotos in my dad's folder.

soyeah.

Sometimes in life,you can't help but feel helpless.

Cause you cant do anything bout something.

Nothing last forever.

You just got to tell yourself ,

everything going to be alright,again.

oh my mama.

2009-12-09T00:26:00.000-08:00

#^**)&%#@!!@#$%^&*

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

IM GOING CRAZYYYYYY.
IM LIKE BORED TO THE EXTEND THAT
im banging my head against the wall(heh,that was a lie)
T.T

*SIGH*

Not sure what drama i can watch anymore.
Load Extremerely slow now.
Lagging.
Staring at comp and think what shall i do now.
Thought of sleeping.
Just slept till 10am.
*yawn*
Watch Teevee.
In Indon Lang.
Understand 20% of it .
Riots everywhere. Tear Gas.
Study physic? /:
Call me a nerd.
Or was i ?
Loved the song 'Mad World' by Adam Lambert.
Feel that my hair is getting frizzier.
Like mee goreng. Lol.
Shall i cut hair?
Maybe no. I want long loong lonnnngg.
Missed My friends terribly.
Just realise my small sister is such a *
nothing bad.
She sure had an attitude problem.
Hmm
Doesnt know how to be satisfied.
Just got collision with a motor-cyclist.
And she acts like she doesnt know shes wrong.
Imagine rainy day,go cycling.
Sheesh.
Having Pisang Goreng ltr.
I wanted it Steam? .
but Bro wants it
to be goreng-ed.
Lol.
Heh.
i find this so funnnnn.
FOr me luh.
Cause im like , bored.
k luh.
bye.

(:D

Draw the curtain.

2009-12-07T21:25:00.000-08:00

it amaze me.

i see clockwise ey. you?

I find these pic so cool.

kinda reminds me that we human

somehow can keep control of our

feelings simply by seeing it from a

different angle.It doesnt always be that bad,

isnt it ? (:

Prawny prawns.

2009-12-07T04:22:00.000-08:00

Ever since i get back indo i have been

eating prawns , -.- and i have just heard

my father bought 8KG of it . O.O

Omgoshhh,how am i gonna eat finish .

See la , how can i even go on diet ma right ,

sofia? lolllolool. Well, everyday stay at home

play computer,eat , sleep. Thats like ,such a bore.

i have been ranting bout food on these post isnt it ?

T.T , i think i sure have gain more weights arld . hehehe .

And also, i have just took is quiz called ,

The Random quiz For Random People,

thought of this aftr viewing sof's blog . hehhehe ,

http://www.allthetests.com/quiz26/quiz/1227046680/The-Random-Quiz-For-Random-People

And it says im quite good at random quizz ! MUAHHAHA ,

Lol,i got 8/10. hehehhe . take it if youre bored,like me.

So , i might want to post more often soon , hehhe ,

and rants whatever thing i want , hehehehhe ,

sayonaraaaa ! :D

he she ; him her

2009-11-30T21:10:00.000-08:00

mozzie i killed , muahahaa :X

my mum and i

the temple.

Welllllll, it has been a while since i've blogged.

Okay , so yesterday , i went to this place where there

is this monk ? you know when you want to ask something

about health or ect. You know those people wearing robes ,

yellow and red colour .I got into the room , he started,you know "nian jing"?

then he touch your head , they say is for you to be healthy.

well...i dont really understand but well hahha . i dont know how to

explain all these clearly. oh i almost forgets.

The monk is from tibet, only speaks english.

Hmm,then after that , at night , i went to the temple,

not say i want to but my mother wants me to go.

So yeah , the monk is there too, and of coz ,

the mosquitoes didnt leave my blood alone -.-

i was bitten even tho i was wearing long pants.

haah , and guess what . i saw my ex-bestfriend.

HAHAHA , her mother knew me , so she went like ,
"Hey, why nvr talk to her , she is just over there!"

like ps only . hahha , thn when my mother and i find a

place to sit . Her mother want her to sit beside me .

haha i really dont know what to talk about sial.

I mean, she dont understnads chinese ,

and i dont know how to speak indo lang ==

so yeah . Sighh , i saw a lot of my frens but only

my mum knew them , i literally forgets bt them.

Sry but not my fault whut.. gone for almost 7years ma~~

Some of the people even went , "who is that girl?" in malay.

hahahahaaa .

So aftr that , all of the people there started opening all of the

food putting it all in boxes.They say they wanted to burn all those food ,

so that people in afterlife can eat it . hmm. So we each had those food and we take turn to

throw it into the fire.The fire was so big , when i got near, i feel like i was

being BBQ -.- so aftr all this , i really cnt tahan,i ask mum can go home not . haaha

its was arld like , 10pm . My mum said that one of the person could see those
"things" eating hungrily . hmm. They say these people are those who

dont have people who burn them food . ohwell.

So i ask my mum if she belive in this kind of thing ,

then she say , cnt say dont believe or believe luh . hahha

true.Oh yeah , i forget to say , its durian season now ! hahaha

the durian sure were sweet. hahah, megan are you drooling right now /?

Cause its so nice , some of my relative , due to the fact

that they eat too much ,fell ill== one got hospitalise .

Hope they get better soon . hahahahah .

sigh,i missed school.friends.laughter.

Lights out .

2009-11-25T23:18:00.000-08:00

durians !:D

YAY ! sucessfully upload fts . haaha

Yesterday just came back t indo and i felt

so extremely tired. Like i can sleep whenever i want .

I slept as soon as i lay down , miracles luh.

Wanted to study pyhsic before that but see the

words arld dizzy . muahhaha .

Not bad ah the internet, still can watch utube ,

but load things still need to wait v long . oh well.

Ltr got pisang goreng to eat, and tempeh! Woah ,

heaven here. Excluding the mosquitoes and

blackout. & i heard there will be black out soon this

aftrnoon -.- Watching Black & White 痞子英雄-.

Not bad la the show . C:

ok luh thats all 4 today (:

Facade . Gone . Vulnerable.

2009-11-16T02:23:00.000-08:00

3e2 girls ! :D

Hello !

Sorry for not posting after so long , heh.
Too lazy plus the internet lags likeeeee hell.
Oh anyway, Went to BW's birthday party
yesterday.Even tho they choose a weird timing to
BBQ, which is 1pm , it was fun tho . hhahaha .
Ate until very very full.Then the guys decided
to throw BW into the swimming pool . heh
WEll,he ran away at first.Then got caught .
In the end , Albian also got threw in.
Birthday boys mah~~ :D

Aftr that go back to his house , watched movie?
hmm then at about 6, wanted to go home ,
But decided it was still so early , meet zy eat pizza hut.
hehhehe. hey i know okay,i can feel the fats around me arld.
jhhahaha, so i decided to go exercise ! :D
Wanted to go gym today,but due to severeal circumstances,
it was canceled.So today,i have been idly around my house .
Aimless. Sigh, maybe i should hit the books soon.

Theres this one thing , which i find it very disturbing.
You know how the way people accidentally touch you ,
or smth like that , they will be like , oops sorry , then
RIGHT in front of the person ,rub the place where they
touch you , on their shirt. Like huh? am i a dirt or smth?
do you need to do that ? I mean even if you are a cleanliness
freak or smth , you could have just do that somewhere i
wouldnt see.I found it very rude . -.- Not trying to pinpoint anyway.
Srsly.&& also , my patience has it limit. Please do not
try to go overboard.

Hmm , 4gt bt it , i just want to spit out all my feelings here.
&&ya, i was surfing the net and came this super huge
flower , name Amorphophallus,woah ,can you imagine that?
Maybe it has twice the human height ! :D hahha.
kay thats all :D

Create chances for yourself,not wait for them to come to you.

2009-11-10T07:50:00.000-08:00

So,morning went to play badmintion with yh,dom,wino&eve.
Wino is like laughing like crazy& i dont know why. haha.
Got serious case of laughing syndrome ! hahah.
Okay then went to dom house to see his dog?
One of them is kind of fierce , keep barking .
wino was like scared to death . hhahahhaha ,
Another was sick i think , get better againnn ! :D

Okay so aftr that , went to school to hand in appeal form,
quite a lot appeal ley.Hope can get poa but if its amaths,
then i really got to study real hard.Aftr that macs with fannah&wino.
Went to orchard go WL house. Didnt really get to watch movies ,
but the food were... delicious. & We ate until damn full . hhahah .
Corn soup& spagetti. Her mother is nice :D

Okay so aftr that went home. 1hour ride from there to my house.
almost freeze to death during the journey. sigh.
Buying books tmr. oh and uh , i feeling quite excited
abt next year. Think i would not be so excited anymore
when homeworks comes in . hahhaha kay nighttttt ! :D

hols bore me to hell.

2009-11-05T06:54:00.000-08:00

escape ! :D

Heart 2e4.

loads of things have been going on these past few days so hmm lets see.
Aftr e4's chalet i went to meg.blahblahblah.Aftr that went wild wild wet.
It sure was fun . muhahaha. even though it was raining , or rather,drizzling.
Then performance for Townsville&jingshan pri. It was well , okay.
Watched Love happens with zy today. Wanted to watch My gf is an agent ,
but meg cant make it so we watched others. Aftr going out all this week,
im like broke. k la nothing new so whatever. :D

So,i think i will really miss all the time spent in class 1e4&2e4.
I guess walking through those corridors will bring back many memories.
2e4 has played a big part of my life i guess. Thanks to all those people
i've met in my life. Whether its bad or good , they have teach me something
in some part of my life.some may be unpleasant , but we learn how to
get through it & accept just the way it is. Life isnt going to be
a bed of roses right?Thanks to all my close friends , needless to say,
youre there when i needed y'all the most. i appreciate it , really :D
no need to say who you all are right , i know you know who you are.
Also,people who brighten up my life , like you know cracking jokes
that are not even funny .Laughing at things that aint funny.
Hahha , i defintely will miss all this. Okay,im talking like as if we're not
going to see each other again. Then again , i probably will end up in the same
class as you all, which is like good news ! :D muhahahha . i can take it eitheway,
anyway. its 11.11pm right now . :D

k uh, im gna watched movie all nightie ! hehhee.